Shame: mother of four Abandons hubby and children for Pastor Boyfriend. Delivers baby girl for new lover.

According to Charles Spugeon in his book about marriage he said ‘‘A Beautiful Woman is like a melody, her husband will face the music when she enters his house’’ Character as they say is within why reputation is in the market place. One thing is obvious, reputation could be fake, character can never be fake no matter how you pretend to be. Love at first, is usually said to be something special to all of us, physically, emotionally, it can build us up can as well tear us apart.

What will make a woman, mother of four who has a caring dedicated husband, worthy of given responsibility in any capacity, to abandon her husband for a boyfriend? This is the question all the residents of  6, Ajia Street in Ijeshatedo is asking concerning one Mrs. Rosaline Alexander who abandoned her four lovely children, including her husband Mr. Alexander Senda for one Evangelist Chinedu Lordson Akandu. 

It was gathered that the said Mrs.Rosaline Alexander delivered a baby girl on the 24^th of September 2012 for his new lover Chinedu lordson Akandu who hail from anambra state in eastern part of the country. According to a close source Mr. Alexander  Senda his wife Roseline were living in harmony all these years. Her husband is a quiet man, he doesn’t make trouble, very committed to his family, work he is a responsible man.

Speaking to Mr. Alexander Senda at his residence No 6, Ajia Street Ijeshatedo where he spoke concerning his wife abominable character.

According to Alexander Senda the Benue State born gentle man who together with wife hail from tiv in ushogo local Government Area Benue said.

‘‘The whole thing is like a home movie because I am yet to believe that the woman I loved from the depth of my heart is the same person doing this’’ you could see the tears in his eyes. Mr. Alexandra who is a Nigeria port authority staff said the whole thing started in 2011 when he first noticed that his wife Roseline added another surname to her name, that is instead of Mrs. Roseline Alexander what I saw was Roseline Lordson Alexander. I asked her nobody is bearing such name in my family where did you get Lordson from? She was speechless. Well, personally I choose to be responsible .As a man it is not everything you disclose to the public. Sometimes you have to overlook for peace to reign in your home. After some weeks I found out that the full name of the man is Evangelist Chinedu Lordson Akandu who met my wife  on face book and invited her to church  called (Anointing Ministry located at adura bus stop along Abeokuta Express way, alakuko,lagos)which latter folded up after the death of the General Overseer. I called my wife I asked her again who is this man Chinedu Lordson Akandu? According to Alexander, the wife at this point told him that the said Lordson Akandu was her pastor. Marriage as they say is all about trusting each other. Mr. Alexander Senda did not see the hand written on the wall that the wife has been cheating on him. He was then asked if he dint know that something was fishing somewhere? “How can I begin to suspect a woman whom I have married for fifteen years? I gave her everything she wanted. I don’t have any hiding agenda as far as am concern and I know that God will judge each and every one of us either now or later.” He added.

 Sometimes in 2010 I called my wife, on Saturday morning to be precise, normally I don’t hide any plan from her. I told her that very soon I would be retired, and since I have a project going on in the village I would like her to get a shop in Gboko, to start up business for herself so that by the time I retire we will have something to fall back at. In 2011, I gave her some money to travel home to start up the business, she was very happy with the new development. She travelled in and did exactly as we agreed.  January 28, 2012. She returned to for a brief visit. By February 2012 I noticed that my wife was two months and one week pregnant. When I confronted her about the pregnant no explanation was given. At this point I knew that something was terribly going on but still I kept to myself because I don’t expose my family.

By, May 13^th, 2012. My mum sent for her to come to the village. To be truthful to you I did not discuss anything with my mother. I gave her money to add to her business, she travelled and that was the last time I set my eyes on my wife. The next thing I heard was that she has travelled to Abuja for one business or the other. Each time I called her, some time she will pick at times she might not pick. One day, I got a call from one of our family friend telling me that they saw my wife on face book with another man on traditional attire. What I thought was a joke was true. By the time I open the face book, I saw my wife’s picture with Chinedu Lordson Akandu, and a picture of my third child, Mimidoo the three on face book. By September 24^th 2012, Roseline gave birth to a baby for her new lover Chinedu Lordson Akandu.  Recently I was told by somebody that this Chinedu is pastoring a church somewhere in sangotedo somewhere around lekki and name of the church is Africa Christian foundation church of Christ.

 I was also made to understand that at Anointing ministry where he invited my wife Roseline to after they met on face book that evangelist chinedu akandu was a frequent guest preacher when the founder was alive.

It was also gathered that Evangelist chinedu lordson and Mrs. Roseline Alexander are presently living together in an undisclosed area in Lagos. When asked if the family of the wife are aware of all this; he said “ We have sat in a meeting on several occasion concerning the character of their daughter but to no avail as everybody in her family are saying that they are not aware of her where about. More so she does not pick her phone once she discovers that the call is from her family.

Winifred Ioruagh, a cousin to Roseline Senda said “what my sister did to her husband is still a surprise to me and of our family. Could you believe that my sister have the guts to call her husband on the 24^th of September that she had put to birth for another man?.

Roseline first son, Solomon Alexander 14 years old also said “my mother character shows that she doesn’t love her children and she doesn’t love our father despite all the love that our father had shown to her over the years they have been married” he said in tears.

Speaking to Mrs. Vera Okon, a family friend of Alexander and Roseline, according to her “I have called Roseline several times telling her to come back to her husband and children since there was no misunderstanding between her and the husband, but to no avail until recently I was told that she gave birth to a child in another man’s home. I don’t know what to say again’’. She said.

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BY PETER MAYAKI

Peter_mayaki@yahoo.com