Thanks in no small measure to
the fashion industry and its preference for impossibly thin models, women have
been brainwashed into believing that the ideal figure comes in a size 2. In
truth, many men prefer women with more, shall we say, substance. Yes, curves
are back in a big way and men love them. Here are 10 reasons why some men love
bigger women:
Culture –
Physical attraction is of course an individual thing, but a physical ideal is
often the product of a particular culture. In many cultures, the ideal female
figure is more curvaceous, and men from those cultures are naturally more
attracted to women who fit that image.
Biology –
From a physiological standpoint, the female figure throughout history had been
viewed from the perspective of one’s child-bearing
characteristics. Wider hips and larger bosoms indicated fertility, strength and
nursing capabilities.
Memory –
Some men might have a preference for larger women based on a psychological
attachment to a strong female figure in their early lives. The physical
dimensions they seek in a mate reflect the level of influence or control that
figure had on them in their formative years.
Mother –
In the same way that many cultures have valued women for their ability to bear
children, some men choose women in an attempt to replace their own mothers.
Their physical preferences are rooted in the aforementioned idealized maternal
image.
Fidelity –
Some men choose larger women based solely on the pretext that, as such, these
women would be less likely to cheat on them. Their logic goes that a larger
woman will be less attractive to other men, thus ensuring her fidelity. What
this says about such a man’s self-image and his
view of the opposite sex could fill a book.
Insecurity –
Some men choose larger women because, like the men described above, their
preference is rooted in self-doubt. Their insecurity about their own appearance
draws them to women whom they regard to be physically less-than-ideal
themselves, and so won’t be rejected for their own shortcomings.
Modern –
Modern culture has recently begun to once again celebrate the zaftig female
form. The prevalence of plus-size women in pop culture has changed a lot of
minds regarding physical attraction.
Compatibility –
A predilection for plus-size mates might in some instances simply be a matter
of physical compatibility. Large men would logically be expected to gravitate
toward large women, closer to their own dimensions.
Attraction –
There are men who just like “something to grab
onto”, as they say. They find the substance of a larger
woman more sexually appealing and satisfying. Women with curves look like
women, which leads us to our next observation …
Different –
As the French saying goes, vive le difference! Men are attracted to those
attributes of the opposite sex that make them different. An hourglass figure is
synonymous with femininity, and so is naturally appealing to those who do
indeed celebrate how our genders complement one another.
Personal tastes and
preferences vary widely, as do the underlying reasons behind them. While some
of the reasons listed above might not be very complementary, there are many men
who honestly prefer women with more flesh on their bones
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